“Is it ok if I wear black?”

Absolutely – the only color you should NOT wear is white (or any variation of it, ha)!  With that said, I think pastels and florals are beautiful options for summer weddings.  Don’t be afraid to experiment with color…as long as it’s not obnoxiously bright. Please, please, PLEASE do not show up in hot pink from head-to-toe – like I mentioned before, you don’t want to steal the bride’s thunder.  It’s her day so you want to make sure she’s the star of the show!

“Do I have to wear a dress if it’s black tie?”

That’s a great question!  Black tie’s not as formal as white tie, but most women still sport floor length gowns for the occasion. There ARE ways to avoid it though if you’re not a fan of dresses.  Jumpsuits and pantsuits make great alternatives.  Throw in some killer jewelry, and you’re good to go!

“I hate walking around in heels.  Can you recommend dressy shoes that are comfortable?”

I recommend wedges.  They’re obviously not as fancy as stilettos, but they’re dressy enough.  I actually wore a pair as my cousin’s maid of honor years ago because I knew I’d be running around all day long, and it was such a good call.  Embellished flats or sandals also work – just make sure they’re dressy and save your flip flops for the beach.


cute bow dresses

Here’s an outfit I recently wore to a friend’s wedding in PA.  As much as I love looking cute, being comfortable is my first and foremost concern – I truly believe that if you feel self-conscious, you’ll look it.  So, I went with an adorable midi dress from ASOS.  I’ve put on a little weight these last few weeks so the A-line silhouette is currently my best frand.

I don’t usually like strapless pieces because they pinch my arm fat, but this dress was surprisingly flattering.  Plus, I have a weakness for all things girly so the bow totally sealed the deal for me – I even have a board dedicated to bows on pinterest, #sorrynotsorry. Ha!  To finish things off, I accessorized with a fun clutch for a pop of personality and threw on Valentino-inspired heels to match.  Anywho, I hope you guys found this post helpful!  If you have any additional questions, feel free to email me and ask.  I’m more than happy to play stylist for you all.

what to wear to weddings

Dress:  ASOS || Heels:  Qupid || Clutch:  Aldo

unique clutches

Anywho, I hope you enjoyed my guide on what to wear to summer weddings!  If you did, please take a second to share or retweet.  A huge thanks to the wonderful Sung Shin for taking these shots for me – you da real MVP!  For other how-to posts, click here.  Anddd to see more of my looks, check out my outfits tab.

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  1. July 5, 2017 / 8:09 pm

    Great tips and tricks! I'll definitely keep these things in mind for future weddings. 🙂

  2. July 6, 2017 / 5:06 am

    Beautiful dresses

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